Love as a choice

When we first met with F we were in an environment where there was a lot of space for closeness or in other words not a lot of physical space which encouraged us to get closer to each other. Somehow it felt very natural and comfortable to be closed to him. On our next date we changed surroundings and were stimulated to make conversation. […] So it was very easy to fall in love. For scientists love is an emotion aimed at keeping human species alive by reproducing. According to them we do not choose who we fall in love with. […] As Mandy len Catron explains in her article: “Love didn’t happen to us. We’re in love because we each made the choice to be.”

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